In what way do you kill a person's self-esteem
- BIT BTF
- Oct 30, 2022
- 3 min read
Self-esteem makes a person be who themselves, but the question is what happens if you kill self-esteem that you already had?

What would happen if you kill our and other self-esteem? What could possibly happen?
STEP ONE
What is the step one of killing its self-esteem?
Disagree with everything they say. If they make a suggestion, dismiss it. Even if what they say is right, twist it to make it look like they are wrong. Don’t let up until they say you are right.
STEP TWO
What is the step two of killing its self-esteem?
If you make a mistake, blame it on them. If you forgot to do something, say it is because they didn’t remind you. You can do this even if they didn’t know you were supposed to do it. If they say, “I didn’t know,” then blame them for not keeping up with things.
STEP THREE
What is the step three of killing its self-esteem?
Criticize everything they do. Tell them they are doing it wrong. Stand over them until they get it right (according to you) or until they give up and stop. Or just push them aside and take over and blame them for not being able to do it right and forcing you to have to do it. Criticize the way they look, the way they talk, the way they think. Make snide remarks about them and then say you were joking. Make them feel stupid or ugly or lower class than you and others. Make them hate themselves.
STEP FOUR
What is the step four of killing its self-esteem?
Criticize their family members and their friends. Make up insulting names for their friends. Ignore their family and do not have anything to do with them. At the same time, demand that they go with you to visit your family members. Do not let them voice any complaints or criticisms of your family even though you feel free to criticize theirs.
STEP FIVE
What is the step five of killing its self-esteem?
Never show affection. Never touch them. Never praise them. Never thank them, except if they say they love you, then answer, “Thank you,” but never return the love. Do show affection to others and praise others in their presence.
STEP SIX
What is the step six of killing its self-esteem?
If they are on the phone, turn up the television or music or computer to drown out their talking and make it difficult for them to hear. Complain about how much they talk to other people, but even though you never talk to them except to convey necessary information, make demands, or remind them of things they should do or what they did wrong.
STEP SEVEN
What is the step seven of killing its self-esteem?
Control everything. Watch what you want to watch on tv and expect them to watch with you even though you know they don’t enjoy the program. Don’t let them look at their phones or read a book without complaining that they should be watching the tv. Expect them to eat what you want to eat, to go places you want to go, to listen to music you want to hear. Be sure that they do not feel comfortable enough to do what they want. Expect them to be ready to leave a place whenever you are ready, no lingering around talking to someone at a party or anything like that.
CONCLUSION
If you follow these steps, you will successfully crush that person’s spirit and make them feel like crap. They will lack confidence in themselves. They will never feel comfortable around you because they will be on constant guard against annoying or angering you. They will not trust themselves. They will lose all self-confidence and be psychologically dependent on you. Congratulations. You have crushed their spirit.
If you are playing this game with someone who is making you feel like crap, then you should strongly consider dropping out of these mind games and finding a new life around people who do not crush your spirit and make you feel like crap.
Reviewed by: BIT BTF
Date reviewed: October 2022
REFERENCES
CORRE JOSEPH, 2022
MOHSENE LAURA, 2018
https://medium.com/publishous/how-to-crush-a-persons-spirit-and-make-them-feel-like-crap-16f48a6d03a4
CONTENT WRITER & EDITOR
QUINLOG REZAMAE, 2022
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